i go to tumblr for inspiration. and i find this.

To be precise, a photo of a woman in strong rope bondage, her pussy and asshole exposed to the photographer, her arms immobilised behind her back, rope tethering her thighs too.

i used to think that to ease back into submission, it needed to be slow and soft to let me readjust.

nowadays i see something like that and recognise the power in it: just control me absolutely, prevent me from taking any initiative or resisting at all. and then i can relax, and give in, and take the ride with you, and obey without hesitation. don’t give me any options.

*sending photo to husband now*